ON BEING EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED.

I feel like I’m getting too emotionally involved in my relationship. I’ve been dating this guy for a while now, and I literally have never felt so, I don’t know, caught up in it all. I’m only 20 and I literally want to marry him. I think about it all the time. I shouldn’t be thinking of marriage, I should be out getting drunk and hanging out with friends. You know what I do instead? BAKE. I’m dreaming of a little domestic life and I don’t know how to handle it. How do I get out of this terrible, terrible, slump I’m in Coketalk?

First of all, stop using the word literally as an intensifier. Also, spit out your gum.

Listen, cupcake. There is nothing wrong with daydreaming about wedding days and white picket fences. You’ve got a crush on this guy. That’s great. Enjoy it, but don’t worry. It’ll pass.

You’re getting all freaked out because you think you’re in a slump. Nope. This is a peak. You’re at the top of the fucking mountain right now, babe. The slump comes later when Mr. Abercrombie & Fitch decides to dump you for another sorority girl because you got too drunk one night and started absent-mindedly throwing around the M word.

This is the first time you’ve ever been emotionally involved in a relationship, and you’re over here complaining that your bicycle has training wheels. Trust me, you need them. You’re still a child who doesn’t yet think for herself. That’s fine, but I’d be wasting my time expounding on the virtues of vulnerability and owning your emotions.

For now, just keep baking and do what feels good.

Love is like the stars, they never fade.

As oppose to what is written above, stars do fade, they even die.

According to Universe Today, a star can exist in relative stability in this way for billions of years. Eventually, though, the star runs out of hydrogen fuel. At this point, a new reaction takes over, as helium atoms are fused together into heavier and heavier elements, like carbon and oxygen.

Once the helium is used up, a medium-mass star like our Sun just runs out of fuel. It can no longer sustain a fusion reaction. And without the pressure of the light ballooning it out, the star contracts down into a white dwarf – made mostly out of carbon.

Just like love.

They may not die, but they do fade. For example, why do people break up? Why do boyfriends or girlfriends become exes? why do friends turn into biggest enemies?

Compassion is the fuel, when you run out of it love fades. When you can do longer compromise, the relationship falters. Stars, like love, might shine its brightest at a moment, a phase, a lifetime, but somehow they fade away.

Just saying.

Dumungaw Ka Sa BINTANA (yess?)

well.. ako ginagawa ko yun malamang nagpapahangin ka. pero hindi lang yun ang ginagawa ko kapag dumudungaw sa binta.. buti nalang may bintana ako sa harapan ng bahay nila.. kahit paggising niya, kumakain, tumatambay sa harap ng bahay nila, nagbabasketball, at kahit matutulog na siya nakikita ko lahat!! pati na nga yung.. hehehe.. alam mo na.. pero hindi ko yun ineexpect na makita accidentally lang.. lahat ng kilos niya nakikita ko.. pero hindi ko naman siya kilala maski pangalan niya 'di ko alam. nakakainis diba? araw - araw mo na siyang nakikita pero walang pagkakataon para makilala siya..

hindi ko alam ang gagawin ko.. gusto ko siyang makilala..
well, mag comment kayo if you have any suggestions or tips para makilala ko siya.. OK BA??

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KILIG SOOOO MUUUUCH!! :))

pano ko mapaparamdam sayo ang nararamdaman ko kung wala tayong oras na magkakasama tayo huli na ang lahat ng inilabas ko kung kailan magkakahiwalay na tayo.. nagsisisi ako kung bakit hindi ko agad pinakita saiyo ang nararamdam ko.. sana maappreciate mo naman ako.. nahihiya akong sabihin na mahal kita sobra.. :(